Come out of your cocoon and enjoy a plus size sex life

It’s a moment awaited with bated breath and exciting anticipation…a moment of ultimate fulfillment as a woman…It is a moment of “Love Realized”! It is a moment when you can leave the rest of the world behind to be in your man’s arms! But do you actually leave the rest of the world behind? Don’t your plus size insecurities and awkwardness create hindrances amidst those passionate nights of love? Don’t you constantly worry about what your partner is thinking? Doesn’t your passion get restricted with the thought that you will not be able to satisfy your partner?

Come on girl…you can do much better! With all the love and passion you have in your heart, why let those extra pounds take an upper hand on your love life!

Why be so afraid of your body? Why ruin the moment? All you need is to embrace your sexuality and be confident about yourself in the bedroom.

Sex for a curvy woman is very important. The importance heightens because making love is also about boosting confidence. And when you are confident, not only can you do all the things you want to do, you can also have the best sex life which you deserve like every other girl.

As with the rest of the world, it applies to you as well: that “Good sex is all about being confident about yourself”.

And to give your confidence quite a bit of a boost,

Follow these simple tips

Set The Mood: Take charge of setting up the mood. You can now take control of a lot of things, like selecting the light. The right light can help you a lot in easing your insecurities. Opt for soft candle lights: they provide enough light to be intimate with your partner and enough darkness to hide your flaws.

The right clothing: Don’t hide in your clothes. But don’t bare it all just to be sexy. There are many clothing options which will not make you overexposed but will be sexy enough to get your man in the mood for love. Play into fantasies. Try wearing your man’s shirt with a pair of heels. You can also opt for lingerie to spark the fire in your man as well as hide your problem areas.

Don’t over-think it: Don’t keep stressing yourself. Your partner is not looking for your flaws. In fact, he is not paying any attention to all those facets about which you are so worked up. Over-thinking the situation will not do you any good; it will, on the other hand, push him away…instead, go with the flow and let yourself be carried away. This will wash away all your insecurities. Just relax and enjoy yourself.

And the most important thing you should know is that

If he is there with you, he is totally into you


Your sex appeal lies in your charm and power of attraction. In order to seduce your man you need to exploit your sexuality and shine in front of him. This makes one thing clear; your body shape, color or hair color is not an important factor in your sexuality.

Your man is attracted to you because of your nature. He is aware of your flaws and yet he is turned on by you. He is in the mood for love and nothing else matters to him right now!

Plus-sized young girls can be just as stylish and fashionable as skinny girls. It's all about accentuating the positive and developing your own personal style.

Just because you are a plus-sized teen doesn't mean you can't be a fashion queen! Check out some of these style tips:
Don't Hide Under Baggy Clothes
The biggest fashion mistake that plus-sized teens make is hiding themselves under layers of oversized, baggy clothing. The intention is to conceal their extra pounds by covering themselves up. Unfortunately, wearing baggy clothes only makes you look bigger, and it hides the shape and figure that you do have. A baggy, long shirt will mask your waistline and make your body look much wider than it actually is. Layers of clothing will only add bulk to your appearance. Get clothes in your size, or one size larger if you like a slightly loose fit - but no more than one size above your actual size. Don't be ashamed of your body - every body is beautiful.
Accentuate the Positive
Being a teenager is all about being fashion forward. Develop a personal style, and always accentuate your favorite attributes. For example, if you've got great calves, don't be afraid to wear a skirt that is cut above the knee to show them off. Just because you're not a size four doesn't mean you can't wear stylish outfits. Just because you don't have Jessica Simpson's inhumanly small waistline doesn't mean that you can't still have a beautiful, voluptuous shape that is totally worth showcasing.
Be Colorful
You've probably heard that black is slimming, and while this can be true, why would you want to look like you are going to a funeral every day of you life? The gothic look is so over, and all-black outfits went out right along with it. Come out of mourning, and add some splashes of vibrant color to your life. Not only will you look better, but you will feel better. Bright colors can actually lift your spirits. Also, when you wear black, you blend into the background of things and when you wear color, you stand out - and yes, that is what you want! While it is advisable to avoid stripes if you're trying to look more slender, you shouldn't shy away from patterns.
Accessorize
Fashion isn't just about clothes. It's also about the accessories, as every fashionista knows. You can work your accessories just as well as the skinny Minnie next door can. You should coordinate your outfit with your shoes, jewelry, and handbag. Your hair and makeup are also integral to your style. It is unfortunate that so many plus-sized teenaged girls simply ignore their appearance because they feel that if they're not skinny, there's no use in trying. This could not be further from the truth! Take care of yourself and nurture your appearance. Just because you have the biggest pants size doesn't mean you can't also have the hottest hairstyle. Look through celebrity hair style magazines, and ask your hairdresser to replicate the style for you - be sure to bring along the picture. Also, make sure that you ask your hairdresser to walk you through the techniques that he or she used to create the style - so that you can do it yourself at home.

Fashion tips for plus sized ladies!

Larger women are no longer content with mediocre fashion. They are saying "no" to ill-fitting polyester and demanding not only style but the same kind of selection that is available to their smaller sisters. Designers and manufacturers have finally begun to recognize that 50 percent of women in the U.S. are size 14 and over, and department stores have also become aware of this important market.
Every woman is different, but there are some things that plus size women should consider when shopping for new clothes. Although there is a larger selection available, larger women can still have difficulty finding clothes that suit their lifestyles. Additionally, some department stores are still reluctant to devote a lot of expensive floor space to this clientele, still buying into the old idea that larger women are perfectly content with the status quo.
No matter where you live or what types of stores are in your area, there are certain guidelines to help every plus sized woman feel attractive and well dressed. Here are five tips for a better you!
Support
Larger women need to pay particular attention to the type of foundation garments that they wear. Unlike smaller women, bras and foundation garments are not usually as readily available, and may even need to be special-ordered. The temptation is to skimp in this area, but investing in good quality supportive garments pays off in the long run. Wearing good foundation garments will help make you feel more comfortable and contribute to a stylish, put-together look.
Lingerie
This is an area where it's okay to splurge. Look for pretty, feminine nightgowns and sexy robes for nightwear, and lacy camisoles and bras for evening. Pretty lingerie is available in department stores catering to larger women as well as from online outlets. There are hundreds of online stores selling great lingerie for plus size women. Remember, size should be no barrier to feeling sexy.
Accessories
While shopping for plus size clothing may be a bit of a challenge, finding accessories is a breeze, and full-figured women should splurge on fashionable extras that complement their wardrobes. Accessories can be purchased in finer department stores as well as discount outlets, in a wide range of prices.
This is one area where there are no rules, and a woman can be truly creative. Turn an ordinary black dress or suit into something special with a pretty scarf or shawl. Look for color and texture to coordinate with wardrobe favorites. Color draws the eye and can detract from other areas. Jewelry doesn't have to be expensive to be impressive, and costume jewelry can be just as much fun to wear. Look for fun handbags and hose. Scarves are also being worn with jeans instead of a belt, and can coordinate with your blouse or sweater.
Footwear
Shoes can often make an outfit. Don't hesitate to be bold in the shoe department, and mix and match colors and styles to extend your wardrobe options. There are virtually no limits to the choices that are available and the places where you can buy them. Check discount department store for colorful, inexpensive summer shoes and don't forget end of the season sales. For winter, splurge on a nice pair of leather boots.
Hair, Makeup, and Nails
To polish up your look, splurge on a good stylist. Too many women neglect this area, and it is surprising how a great new hairstyle can really improve your overall appearance. Ask the stylist for suggestions, and don't be afraid to make a change. Stop by the makeup counter at your local department store and get some tips from a professional on using the right foundation, blush, and eye makeup for your face and coloring. Finally, pay attention to your nails and treat yourself to a manicure or trip to a nail salon. In the summer, don't let your toes detract from your pretty new sandals. Have regular pedicures and keep your nail polish fresh.
Attention to detail and accessories can add style and polish to any woman's wardrobe, but for a plus size woman, these little extras can really make the difference between being well dressed and in style.

The Biggest Fashion Shopping Mistakes

The Biggest Fashion Shopping Mistakes

1. Don't talk yourself into an outfit that isn't flattering to your frame. There are only two kinds of clothes in this world. Clothes that flatter you and clothes that don't and avoid the latter regardless of how popular and trendy they are.
2. It is one thing to go shopping with your girlfriends because that can be very social and enjoyable but keep in mind don't shop with a competitive friend because she will cajole you into buying more and possibly unflattering items whether or not you need it.
3. If you are shopping for a cocktail (event) dress remember to bring your shoes. That way if you need to have in-store alterations you will be all set.
4. If you need to power shop remember to bring a list. This can help focus your attention and keep you on task.
5. Nothing good will come from buying uncomfortable shoes regardless of how fabulous they are.
6. Don't buy something you don't need because it is a fantastic sale price. I know we have all done this but it is a waste of money and closet space.
7. Don't buy on impulse. Ask yourself the following questions when deciding if to buy. Do I need this? Does it fit with my lifestyle or wardrobe? Where am I going to wear this? If you are still undecided then put it on hold and if you are still thinking about it at the end of the day -buy it.

Posted by Jennifer Ogoo Okolo

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